HOW TO MAKE A RELATIONSHIP LAST

FOCUS ON SHOWING YOUR LOVE

With time every couple in a relationship get used to each other and with the growing levels of familiarity they may stop showing their love for each other. This can eventually affect the people in the relationship and may result in several fights and maybe even a break up. It is therefore a crucial aspect to constantly show the person you are with thatyou love them wholeheartedly. Express your love with the little things in life, by cooking for your partner, buying them little presents, surprising them during their lunch hour etc. There are several ways to do it once you put your mind to it.

FOCUS ON BUILDING A STRONG BOND TOGETHER

Once you are in a stable relationship with someone it is important to develop a connect, a solid bond between the two of you. After a while it’s not about being in a relationship as much as it is about building the relationship. Work on getting to know each other, on being open with each other and in keeping no secrets from each other. This will all help in having a strong bond which is difficult to break.

KEEP REINVENTING YOURSELVES

After you have spent considerable time with each other and you get used to each other it is important to reinvent the way you spend together, just to add some fun to the relationship. Once people get set in a routine and once they stick to their routine they can experience bouts of boredom. It is therefore essential to constantly reinvent everything about you, the relationship etc to stop any amount of boredom from setting in.

DON’T LET LITTLE THINGS HAVE A NEGATIVE IMPACT

If you have successfully developed a strong bond then this point wouldn’t be needed. However, in most cases people tend to fight and then split over little maybe even unimportant things. It is important to exercise maturity while dealing with issues in the relationship in order to understand the difference between a real issue and a little one. Little things like your partner looking at someone else, someone leaving the garbage lying around can be handled in a more mature and delicate manner as opposed to a fight.

WORK ON A BALANCE BETWEEN YOUR TIME TOGETHER AND TIME ALONE

Just because you are in a relationship, it certainly doesn’t mean that you have to spend all your time together. You need to balance things out. Spend time alone, or with your own friends once in a way so that there is a large amount of excitement left when you have to go on a date with your partner. If you spend every waking moment together you may end up losing the spice much earlier in the relationship.

HAVE GROUP OUTINGS WHEN IN A RELATIONSHIP

When you plan to go out as a couple, you could also include your friends once in a way so that you can make your partner feel like part of a group. If your partner knows that your friends like them and accept them it will make a huge amount of difference to the relationship.

INTRODUCE THE FAMILIES AND MEET OFTEN

One thing that can create strong relationships is a family bond. Introduce your partner to your family and make sure that everyone gets along well, if they don’t, try harder. Once families accept each other it will be easier to develop and make your relationship last a long time. Also remember to stand up for your partner when things go wrongbetween the family because this is a crucial way of making the other one understand the level of your love and support.

TAKE REGULAR HOLIDAYS

Time away from the usual definitely helps rekindle the flames behind the love and the relationship. Therefore, it is important to seek out new places and go on holidays to rekindle the romance. Plan regular holidays with a minimum limit of at least once a year. This will strengthen your love and bond thus resulting in a long lasting relationship.